Saturday, December 16, 2006

Merry Christmas & New Year Blessings!

Merry Christmas from the Caldwell Family to all of you. Most of our shopping and baking are done. With 3 days left of school, my biggest stress is wondering how to keep these pretty girls busy during the upcoming Christmas Break... looks like more baking, crafts, games, and giggly sleepovers...

2006 has been a blessed year for all of us. Paul finally got his long awaited promotion. He is now the Store Manager for Burlington Thrifty Foods and is really enjoying the challenges and opportunities that it presents. We are headed over there in a little while so the girls can visit "Santa". Jessica can hardly wait! Jeanna could care less and Haley says, "I know who Santa REALLY is!" (ha!) Paul is such a hard worker! He works 10 to 11 hour days at the store but is never too tired to do his fatherly routine when he gets home, playing hide and seek, guesssing games, listening to the girls read, brushing their teeth, tucking them in, and keeping them all in line - something much easier to do with him around, than me alone! (Something about Dad that means "Yes, sir!")

We are very proud of our 10 year old, Jeanna, as she continues to excel in 5th Grade and all of her extracurricular activities. Busy as ever, she is playing the violin in the MVSD 2nd year Orchestra and enjoying it immensely. She was also playing the flute in band but has just decided that it is too much and needs to focus on one instrument at a time for now - good choice! She was elected as Secretary for her second year on the Madison Student Council, learning leadership and organizational skills there. She is continuing to do well on the SVY Chinooks swim team, working very hard to qualify for Regionals, though she's not quite there yet. As if that's not enough, she is also part of Mad Muse, a weekly after school club that works on journaling their "Madison School News" - in print and video medias. Jeanna is learning "domestic skills" at home; she's a tremendous help around the house with her sisters, learning to cook, clean, and shop for bargains on a budget! She can't wait to babysit and earn more money... am I ever glad for that... looks like she'll get lots of practice soon enough! Her favorite early Christmas present this year was getting to go to her very first "LIVE Concert" in Seattle with her best friend, where she saw "High School Musical". 10 years old, going on 15 already :)

Jessica, 7 years old, continues to make wonderful and amazing progress in all areas. She is in a regular 1st grade class, reading on grade level and learning very basic addition and telling time. She is dearly loved by her classmates and teachers, who continue to be amazed by what she is able to do and learning to do! She has the biggest smile and best laugh ever! She is practically running everywhere these days, keeping me very busy trying to keep up with her. (She's actually been lost for a few minutes a couple of times this fall, giving me big scares. Of course, she doesn't even realize what she's done, which is the most frightening part of all.) This is Jessica's favorite time of the year as she lives for Christmas & Santa. We have also been teaching her about this being Jesus' birthday but at this point, much to our chagrin, Santa is much more exciting to her - with presents, the North Pole, red suits, Rudolph and Barney..., yes, Barney... go figure!

And then there's our 6 year old, "Princess Haley". We couldn't be more proud of her. She is an excellent 1st grader, reading at a 2nd grade level already. We can't spell any words or secrets around here anymore at all without these "smart cookies" sounding it out and saying the words before we do! Haley is very conscientious with her school work and loves the feeling of getting all her lists done right away. We have a school day morning checklist for the girls that helps them stay on task as they get ready for school... (the typical... make bed, get dressed, eat breakfast, make lunch, wash face & hands, brush teeth, pack backpack, etc...). The other day Haley asked me how long she was going to have to do this list. I told her that in reality she would always have a list... as these were things that all of us did every morning before we went to school, work, etc... the only difference was that as we get older we add more things to the list. She wasn't so sure about that. Haley is a delight and full of energy. I do believe her favorite subject is math... as she doesn't miss a beat with what's going on in a day, what's coming up, how many days 'til Christmas, how many more days 'til Mimi & Papa come from Canada..., how many more months 'til everyone's birthdays, the baby's arrival, etc.

Then there's Mama and Baby. We are doing well. I am in my 17th week of pregnancy now, officially due May 30th. The whole family (good friends: Patty & Jason, too!) came to my last Doctor's appointment this past week and got to see Baby on the ultrasound. It was very exciting as Baby had both hands up at his/her face waving at us. Jessica says that Baby waved "Hi & Bye". (very cute!) All preliminary blood tests and ultrasounds are very positive and reassuring that everything is normal with Baby thus far. According to my latest bloodwork, my chances of having a baby with Down syndrome again have gone from 1 in 90 to 1 in 650 - pretty good odds! Honestly, I have tremendous peace and positive feelings about Baby and have not worried at all but it's reassuring nonetheless when the medical professionals confirm it. Since entering the "magical" 2nd trimester, I have been feeling much better - less green and more energy.

I am still in shock some days, that we are doing the "baby thing" again, having to shop for baby furniture, strollers, car seats, layettes, etc. and knowing that life is going to change for all of us yet some more. We'll have less sleep, more mouths to feed, more laundry, more tears and more laughter. I know that in some ways I'll have more help with all these "big" girls around here but then again we thought mornings and bedtimes were already busy!!! :)

As far as general things on the "home front", we pulled our house off the market for Dec & Jan so we can relax a bit more and then we'll try to sell again come February. With Baby's arrival we still need that 4th bedroom - sooner than later. I have been blessed with another part-time contract, working from my home office, for a wonderful local organization that provides educational, therapeutic and behavioral programs for children with special needs. What a Sovereign blessing and provision for us for the next few months!


We had the privilege of celebrating Thanksgiving twice this year. We had "Grandma Dot" & Aunt Joyce from Texas here along with my folks from Alberta during Canadian Thanksgiving and had a most wonderful time. It had been over 2 years since I had seen Grandma & Aunt Joyce and the first time Paul & Haley had met them. We had a precious few days together, never long enough! It's hard to be so far away from family so when we're all together we treasure every moment - counting down the days 'til we can see each other again. Then for US Thanksgiving, we had a quieter celebration just the 5 of us. In the evening we had our dear friends and adopted family, Steve, Patty & Jason over for pie and coffee.

Meantime, we continue to enjoy our church family and the activities that we're involved in. I am blessed to be part of a great team of ladies who leads Women's Ministries. Last week I "MC'd" our first annual holiday brunch and fashion show which was a beautiful success, with over 80 women in attendance. The best investment of time & money that Paul & I have made thus far was taking a weekly class at the church this fall, Financial Peace University, taught by Dave Ramsey. It has completely changed the way we spend our money and how we think about our finances from practical and Biblical perspectives. The best part about it is that the principles are working!! (It should be mandatory for every high school graduate and newly wed couple!)

So there you have it, a few highlights of our family life and how we're doing. Here is our Christmas Card from all of us to you. This picture was taken just after Thanksgiving during our "once a year snow storm". You all are always welcome in our home! Come and see us anytime! We pray you have a wonderful Merry Christmas and that all the Blessings of our Lord Jesus will be yours in 2007!

Friday, October 13, 2006

Life is Full of Surprises!

What a month or two we've had! At the end of August, it looked like Paul might be transferred with his work out to Eastern Washington, putting us into a wierd phase of living in "limbo land", waiting for all the "what if's" to work themselves out. We had been discussing selling our house for months and this was the motivation to get it going... so we put our house up for sale. (For more info on our house, you can check out http://www.2915timothypl.com.) After a few weeks of our faith and trust being tested in "limbo land" Paul decided to take one "if" off the table and we chose not to move out of Mount Vernon, even once our house is sold. YAY! We love living here so that part was easy and a huge relief! We want to build a new home once this one is sold...

Meantime, I was hired at the end of September to work as a one-on-one assistant to a wonderful boy with disabilities at the girls' school. I have always appreciated the staff at Madison School and here in the Mount Vernon School District, so it was a real pleasure to be there on a daily basis. My student is an amazing boy and a real delight to work with. It was a real privilige to work with him. It also felt very good to be there at the school, available to our 3 girls but not right in their faces. (They seemed to like it too.)

I was just starting to settle into my new position there at the school, when I started feeling like maybe I was catching Paul's flu... but oddly enough I felt better in the afternoon. Other signs and symptoms appeared making me question "my flu". I thought maybe a little test at home was in order... SURPRISE!!! Yep - it confirmed my suspicions, I officially have the "Egyptian Flu"... I'm going to be a "Mummy" again! It's an extra surprise, especially since I had been told by my healthcare professional back in April that I was in premature menopause, confirmed by ultrasound and bloodwork. The Lord must have some pretty neat plans in mind for this miracle baby! After my first u/s, the "Dr" thought maybe she saw 2 babies... but after my first visit with the OB today, he confirmed only ONE baby - doing very well thus far. ;) Baby is due in May.

Once I knew that I was "with child", my ability to perform my duties with my student changed immediately. Because of my previous pregnancy histories, I am considered "high risk" so I am no longer able to lift him as required and must be extremely careful. I am not on bed rest but after the middle of December (16 weeks) will be limited even more physically. The school staff was very understanding and accommodating, but after weighing all my options and considering the possibilities, I decided to relinquish my contract and just go on the substitute list, relieving myself of the pressure of reporting daily but at the same time, I can work as I'm feeling up to it and available. I am sorry for the sake of my student but I'm confident that all will work out as it is supposed to, since Baby Surprise wasn't part of my plans but the Lord's :)

We are all very excited about Baby. It's pretty cool to be able to see such a strong heartbeat already so early. The girls are busy making plans of their own for Baby and are very sweet with the way they "take care" of me. Of course Paul is as amazing as ever, making sure I'm getting enough rest, bringing me crackers, fluffing my pillows, etc., so comforting, strong, and nurturing! Now thinking about making plans for a new home, the requirements just went from a 3 bedroom to at least a 4...

Stay tuned for more updates, coming your way via this channel soon....

Monday, July 17, 2006

Our First Anniversary

We celebrated our first anniversary as a family and a couple this weekend . We started it off on Friday night, exchanging cards with the children and eating the top of our wedding cake. Paul was a little leary that it might taste old and frost-bitten, but it was actually preserved very well. I had wrapped it in several layers of plastic wrap, 2 layers of foil, then packed the box around it with plastic grocery bags, and finally taped the box shut. All of us agreed that it was as delicious a year later as it was the first time around. We finished the evening with a walk down memory lane as we looked at our wedding pictures together, recalling the fun and memorable moments we had shared.

This one was Haley's idea... she took the picture too :)

On Saturday, we began our day together as a family at the Annual Children's Festival at Hillcrest Park. The girls had lots of fun making crafts and playing games together.


Then at noon it was off to Jeanna's second swim meet where she won a first place ribbon with her team in the 200 free-style relay and a second place in girls' 100 IM. Good job, Jeanna! We are so proud of your hard work! We have a future olympian in training!

After the day's festivities, we took each girl to a different friend's house where they were staying for a sleep-over, as it was now our time... Time for "Romeo & Juliet" to enjoy each other...

Paul & I thoroughly enjoyed the next 24 hours alone as we made one memory after another, enjoying one another's company surrounded by beauty in a multitude of different settings. We started the evening off as I surprised Paul and drove him out to the Benson's Farmstead B & B, where we had reservations at the Garden Tower Suite. After a leisurely stroll through the grass and a few kisses out in the garden, we proceeded to eat dinner in Anacortes on the pier, where we watched the boats passing by on the water below.

Following our delicious dinner, we took a breath-taking walk over the Deception Pass bridge. (If you're afraid of heights, you don't want to do this!) It's a dizzying height - suspended 600 feet above the rushing waters of Deception Pass - scary yet beautiful all at the same time!

We then drove over to West Beach where we sat on a log in the cool evening air, cuddled in a sleeping bag to stay warm, talking and basking in the warmth of each others arms, as we watched the sun set over the ocean.

We took the long way back to our hideaway, driving through the country side and recalling events from the past year. After our arrival back at our Garden suite, we laid on our backs in the cool evening air counting the stars in the beautiful night sky. We lay there for a long time, talking and reveling in the beauty of our surroundings while bats swooped over our heads, cats made their way through the tall flowers and grass, and a combine hummed in the distant farm fields. As the grand finale of our evening, we shared a candlelight dessert fondu, toasting each other with pink champagne while soft music played in the background.

The next morning we awoke late to a beautiful clear sky and birds singing in the trees outside our room. Our hosts graciously served us a delicious gourmet breakfast in the garden, seated at a table under a beautiful shade tree. We sat and drank in the beauty around us as we watched the robins swooping down from the trees, skimming along the grass looking for their breakfast. The fragrance of the flowers and the quiet sounds of nature around us was refreshing as we read the Bible together and began Year Two with Him as the center.

After we checked out, we took our time as we drove up Chuckanut Drive, along the banks of beautiful Bellingham Bay to Old Fairhaven, part of Bellingham's historical district. We casually walked the streets together, hand in hand, poking our heads into quaint little shops chatting and enjoying our last couple of hours uninterrupted. We stopped and ate lunch at a little Mexican cafe, Dos Padres, before heading back south towards home.

What a beautiful weekend we shared together - a good balance of family and fun with the children, and then romantic and intimate time alone as husband and wife. We are so blessed and overwhelmed by the goodness of God and our love for each other. We are looking forward to many more beautiful anniversaries - Romeo & Juliet with our 3 princesses together forever...!

Friday, July 14, 2006

Woodland Park Zoo

I am so thankful for long summer days and the opportunity to spend extra time with my girls. On Wednesday we had just way too much fun visiting theWoodland Park Zoo in Seattle. Here's a few pics of the 3 of them enjoying themselves...

Jessica had way too much fun "driving the tractor" and didn't want to get off. Maybe she has a future in agriculture..? :)

My Biggest Baby Bird - Jeanna...


Where did you say that tiger is?!

First I'm a baby bird... then before you know it, I'm a Mommy Bird... How did that happen so fast?!

The mystery of the golden hippo and the girls who conquered it...

Exploring the tunnels of the Zoomazium...

"I may be hugging a tree, but please don't call me a 'tree-hugger'!" (exact quote from Haley!)

Saturday, July 8, 2006

Dog Days of Summer


My dog is the greatest dog in the whole wide world. At night time Sandy sleeps with me to keep me safe. Sandy is 4 years old right now but on July 17,2006 he is going to turn 5 years old. We got Sandy when he was 6 weeks old. Sandy is very active all day. When Sandy hears something he either growls or barks. As you can see that it looks like Sandy has a beard and a mustash. When Sandy has a haircut his ears go up. For example when we are eating dinner when he wants some food his ears go up. When he doesn't have a haircut you can't see his ears go up. What I think is unique about Sandy is that he has a very curly tail. When Sandy hears his name even when he is sleeping he sits up and starts wagging his tail. In this picture Sandy is fullgrown. Well I hope you liked hearing my ( Jeanna) comments and facts about Sandy.

By Jeanna.

I love my dog sandy. by Haley

Tuesday, July 4, 2006

Happy July 4th

God Bless America.
Land that I love
Stand beside her
And guide her
Through the night with the light from above.
From the mountains,
To the prairies,
To the ocean,
White with foam,
God bless America,
My home sweet home.
God bless America,
My home sweet home.


Happy July 4th to all of you today. What a privilege and honor to celebrate our freedom here in the US today. For Jeanna, Jessica & I, it is our first July 4th that we get to celebrate together here in the USA. Though we were born US citizens we have lived in Canada most of our lives, so we feel extra blessed today to be here to celebrate this special day with our fellow Americans. We are all so blessed to live in a land of freedom. Let's not take it for granted and all celebrate with gratitude today! God bless America!

Sunday, July 2, 2006

















"Our Blended Family"

A choice was made to marry
and as the two became one flesh,
We two families also began the
process of becoming one.

We learned the love that bonds
a family together...
inseperable... indestructible...
is not created magically,
But rather slowly, carefully
over time...
Out of the building blocks of
a thousand little choices.

Choices to discover each others'
unique ways and personalities
To work through our difficulties
and embrace, rather than
resist change,
Accepting who we are and who we
can never be.
Choices to forgive one another,
laugh together, celebrate together,
and cry together.

Through it all, the magic is
we have become all the more
treasured by each other because...

We chose to become a Family!

(c 2001 - by Audrey Jeanne Roberts)